Why Documenting Fatherhood Matters (And How It Helps Your Child)
When I started filming Lily for our channel, I thought it was just about cute videos. But over time, I realised documenting fatherhood runs much deeper.
It’s not just for YouTube. It’s for her. For me. For our family.
Why Fathers Should Document Too
Mums have long been the default “memory keepers.” But fathers bring a different perspective. Our voices, our lens, our presence, they matter too.
Benefits for Your Child
Legacy of Love — When Lily is older, she’ll see just how much her dad was there. Not in words, but in moments.
Boosted Confidence — Children who see themselves documented feel valued.
Shared Memories — Videos and photos let them revisit their childhood through our eyes.
Benefits for Dads
Mindful Parenting — Recording makes me slow down and notice the little things.
Connection — Sharing videos with family builds bridges across distance.
Reflection — Looking back helps me grow as a parent.
How to Document Without Overdoing It
Capture a few minutes, then put the phone down.
Focus on authentic moments, not performance.
Keep private what you don’t want public.
A Personal Note
One day, Lily will scroll through these clips. She’ll see the stay-at-home dad who gave up a career to raise her. She’ll see love in action. And that, to me, is worth everything.
Documenting fatherhood isn’t about content — it’s about connection, legacy, and love. Done mindfully, it benefits both child and parent.
